A Hopeless Search for the Hopeless: a Literature Review of Contemporary Qualitative Studies on Partner Bereavement

Growth Experience Bereaved of a Spouse by Cancer: Relying on Merleau-Ponty's Reorganization of the Body Schemes

The grief experienced by bereaved families can lead to positive changes, and its relevance to the emerging concept of posttraumatic growth has been explored. However, studies on survivors bereaved of a spouse by cancer are scarce; consequently, the nature of growth remains poorly understood. This study aimed to explore the growth experiences of survivors bereaved of a spouse by cancer. Based on Merleau-Ponty's theory of the body, we phenomenologically analyzed narratives/qualitative data collected through interviews of 21 survivors bereaved of a spouse by cancer. The assessment of the growth of survivors bereaved of a spouse by cancer began before the bereavement, with the questioning of habits with the living spouse because of illness and prognosis announcement and/or bereavement, reaffirming the connection with the spouse, realizing that it provides emotional support, and becoming accustomed to who they are now in the new environment.

Parental death: a systematic review of support experiences and needs of children and parent survivors

BACKGROUND

Bereaved people need a supportive response from those around them. Knowing children's and surviving parents' needs following parental death is the first step to ensuring a supportive response. However, no systematic review has reported on this phenomenon.

AIM

To systematically identify and synthesise qualitative literature exploring support experiences of parentally bereaved children and surviving parents.

METHODS

Systematic review with thematic synthesis, following Preferred Reporting Items for Systematic Reviews and Meta-Analysis guidelines. MEDLINE, Embase, PsycINFO, CINAHL and the British Nursing Database were searched for relevant papers to September 2021. Included studies were appraised for quality and thematically synthesised using Thomas and Harden's thematic synthesis framework.

RESULTS

Fifteen qualitative studies from nine countries were included. There were four analytical themes from the children's perspectives (1) Openness of communication with children about death and dying, (2) Children's challenges of managing change, (3) Navigating emotions, and (4) Children's acceptability, access and engagement with support. There were three analytical themes from the parents' perspectives: (1) Adjusting as a parent, (2) Supporting their children, and (3) Parent's acceptability, access and engagement with support.

CONCLUSIONS

Following a parental death, open and honest communication and involvement in what is happening within the family will help children cope. Both children and parents suppress emotions and avoid conversations to protect each other and those around them. A taboo around death exists and constrains the support some families receive. Childhood bereavement is a public health issue, with a need for professionals and communities to better understand and respond to the needs of bereaved families.CRD42020166179.

A social ontology of grief

This article outlines a social ontology of grief. With the point of departure in a relational understanding of subjectivity and an intergenerational notion of death awareness, the author develops a nonessentialist and nonpathological understanding of the experience of losing part of oneself following the death of another. Losing part of oneself refers, on the one hand, to a shattered subject trying to understand and come to terms with the death of another and a shared lifeworld that is irremediably altered. On the other hand, the partiality of this loss implies that the surviving person is forced to struggle with the quandaries of living on. Thus, a social ontology of grief captures the irreducible and painful aspects related to the loss of significant others, as well as the ethical predicaments related to continued existence, which are not exempt from possibilities and hope.