Infertility as a lonely struggle? Coping stories of previously infertile women

The impact of relationship status on IVF patients' quality of life

Infertility treatments are emotionally taxing and include invasive and time-consuming procedures over extended periods of time. In light of the growing numbers of single mothers by choice, the objective of this study was to apply the Conservation of Resources Theory in the context of infertility care and examine whether relationship status constitutes a psychological resource that buffers the decline in quality of life during IVF treatments. We used the FertiQol questionnaire to compare the quality of life of IVF patients between 422 patients who are involved in a couple relationship ("attached") and 117 patients who are not ("unattached"). Results show that the total FertiQol was significantly higher among the attached participants; the Core FertiQol and the Treatment FertiQol were rated higher by the "attached." No significant differences were found between the attached and unattached for the Emotional and Social subscales. "unattached" participants report significantly lower levels of quality of life in the "mind-body" and "treatment tolerability" subscales than the "attached" participants. It is concluded that being involved in a long-term couple relationship is to be seen as a resource that buffers the decline in quality of life of infertile women undergoing IVF treatments.

Pathways to social support: IVF patients' motivation toward peers and selection preferences

Infertility rates are increasing internationally, and its treatment, in-vitro fertilization (IVF) imposes stress on women as primary patients. In this study, led by a researcher with lived experience in infertility, we seek to uncover the pathways that lead IVF patients toward peer support; mainly what precipitates patients' decisions to seek peer support and how they select their peer. Having interviewed 23 IVF patients, we found that prior to disclosing to a peer, women reflect on information about their condition and their personal support needs and reconcile support gaps within their couple and social circles as they gauge their personal motivation to seek peer support. The demands of IVF compel patients to gravitate toward other women with shared experience. Prior to disclosure, patients consider diverse points of connection as well as desirable peer traits including previous IVF experience, other common ground and full transparency in a peer's communication style.