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Tesselaar JM, Mendoza RR, Siegel JA, Elbe CI, Caravelli NS, DeJesus J, Fenton M, Victoria BS, Blashill AJ. A qualitative analysis of relationship advice from the perspective of people living with and recovering from eating disorders while in diverse romantic relationships. Eat Disord 2023; 31:632-650. [PMID: 37194296 DOI: 10.1080/10640266.2023.2206753] [Citation(s) in RCA: 0] [Impact Index Per Article: 0] [Reference Citation Analysis] [Abstract] [MESH Headings] [Track Full Text] [Journal Information] [Submit a Manuscript] [Subscribe] [Scholar Register] [Indexed: 05/18/2023]
Abstract
Eating disorders (EDs) have adverse consequences across life domains, ranging from physical health to interpersonal relationships. While research suggests that romantic partners have the potential to support ED recovery, partners to those with EDs often report feeling confused and helpless in the face of the condition. The extant literature on EDs in relationships centers on the experiences of cisgender, heterosexual women. The present study aimed to garner a more comprehensive understanding of the types of support people with EDs believe are most helpful from romantic partners by analyzing relationship advice from a diverse group of individuals with EDs who were in romantic relationships. As part of a larger study on romantic relationships in ED recovery, we analyzed responses to the question, "If you had to give one piece of advice to someone who learns that their partner has an ED, what would it be?" Through Consensual Qualitative Research-Modified, we identified 29 themes, which we grouped into 7 domains: Foster Open Communication, Create an Environment of Emotional Intimacy, Let Your Partner Guide You, Educate Yourself, Be Compassionate with Yourself, Use Caution when Discussing Food and Bodies, and a Miscellaneous domain. These findings highlight the importance of patience, flexibility, psychoeducation, and self-compassion for individuals working to support their partner's ED recovery, and can inform future couples-based treatments and interventions for EDs.
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Affiliation(s)
- Juliana M Tesselaar
- Department of Psychology, San Diego State University, San Diego, California, USA
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- Department of Psychology, San Diego State University, San Diego, California, USA
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- Department of Psychology, San Diego State University, San Diego, California, USA
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- Department of Psychology, San Diego State University, San Diego, California, USA
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- Department of Psychology, San Diego State University, San Diego, California, USA
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- Department of Psychology, San Diego State University, San Diego, California, USA
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- Department of Psychology, San Diego State University, San Diego, California, USA
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- Department of Psychology, San Diego State University, San Diego, California, USA
| | - Aaron J Blashill
- Department of Psychology, San Diego State University, San Diego, California, USA
- SDSU/UC San Diego Joint Doctoral Program in Clinical Psychology, San Diego, California, USA
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Linville D, Cobb E, Shen F, Stadelman S. Reciprocal Influence of Couple Dynamics and Eating Disorders. JOURNAL OF MARITAL AND FAMILY THERAPY 2016; 42:326-340. [PMID: 26189490 DOI: 10.1111/jmft.12133] [Citation(s) in RCA: 3] [Impact Index Per Article: 0.4] [Reference Citation Analysis] [Abstract] [MESH Headings] [Track Full Text] [Subscribe] [Scholar Register] [Indexed: 06/04/2023]
Abstract
Little research has focused on the ways that eating disorder processes and adult couple dynamics influence one another. The purpose of this study was to investigate the reciprocal influence of couple dynamics and eating disorder illness and recovery processes. We conducted 51 interviews with 17 couples where one member identified as currently suffering or having recovered from an eating disorder. Using grounded theory analytical methods, findings include the systemic interplay of the eating disorder and relationship, both partners' perspectives on the eating disorder and its role in the relationship, the noneating disorder partner's impact on the eating disorder, and coping strategies for recovery as a couple. Clinical implications for supporting couples experiencing eating disorder illness and recovery are discussed.
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