Maternal grief: analysis and therapeutic recommendations

Associations of Losing a Child With the Couple Relationship, Maternal Mental Health, and the Emotional Development of the Subsequent Baby

The loss of a child can impact maternal mental health and the emotional development of a subsequent baby. Couple relationship can help women to cope with this loss. This study investigates the association among child loss, maternal mental health (including prolonged grief), couple adjustment, and psycho-functional symptoms in the subsequent babies. 598 Brazilian mothers, recruited by convenience, took part in the study. Mothers with a baby loss (23%) presented greater age and religiosity, less income, a longer couple relationship, and better couple adjustment, and their baby presented a great number of symptoms. This population needs monitoring for early emotional assistance.

O tempo do luto materno pelo filho que morreu na infância

Resumo Objetivo desvelar o movimento existencial da mãe após a morte do filho por acidente doméstico na infância. Método pesquisa embasada no referencial teórico-filosófico-metodológico da fenomenologia de Martin Heidegger, com dados coletados entre maio e junho de 2017, mediante entrevista fenomenológica com 10 mães cujos filhos morreram em decorrência de acidentes domésticos na infância. Resultados da compreensão dos relatos, emergiram três temáticas: Lembrando o sofrimento profundo diante da morte do filho e os primeiros dias/meses sem ele; Revivendo a dor no presente, por meio da falta diária e das datas importantes e objetos/símbolos da criança; e Antecipando que a dor e a falta que sentem dos filhos nunca irão passar. Conclusão e implicações para a prática o tempo não é preditor da elaboração do luto materno. Neste contexto, o vivido da mãe é composto por um conjunto de significados, que envolvem multiplicidade de fatores e geram importantes repercussões ao longo da vida. Na perspectiva para promoção do cuidado, emergem, assim, a necessidade de ampliar a compreensão e as ações de acolhimento à mãe enlutada, refletindo sobre a temporalidade como constituinte do enlutamento materno.

Death of children by domestic accidents: unveiling the maternal experience

ABSTRACT Objectives: to unveil the meanings of mothers whose children died as a result of domestic accidents in childhood. Methods: a qualitative research, in the light of Heideggerian phenomenology, with ten mothers whose children died from domestic accidents. It was carried out in a municipality of the Northeast Region of Brazil through phenomenological interviews between May and June 2017. The existential analytic was constituted by the comprehensive moments of the Heideggerian method. Results: the meanings unveiled pointed out that, to understand the sudden death of her child, the mother oscillates between feeling guilty, pointing and denying guilt. She reports emptiness, permanent pain, non-acceptance of her child’s death, and the desire to keep him in her life. In this journey, the fear that brings limitations to her life and that of her other children is revealed. Final Considerations: it was revealed that the death of the child in infancy compromises the integrality of being a mother, indicating the need for systematic and continuous care for the adequate management of the emotional and social effects.