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Kittelsen TB, Castor C, Lee A, Kvarme LG, Winger A. "What about me?": lived experiences of siblings living with a brother or sister with a life-threatening or life-limiting condition. Int J Qual Stud Health Well-being 2024; 19:2321645. [PMID: 38404038 PMCID: PMC10898268 DOI: 10.1080/17482631.2024.2321645] [Citation(s) in RCA: 0] [Impact Index Per Article: 0] [Reference Citation Analysis] [Abstract] [Key Words] [MESH Headings] [Track Full Text] [Journal Information] [Submit a Manuscript] [Subscribe] [Scholar Register] [Received: 11/30/2023] [Accepted: 02/18/2024] [Indexed: 02/27/2024] Open
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BACKGROUND There is a lack of knowledge regarding siblings' experiences of being a brother or sister of a child with a life-threatening or life-limiting condition. Siblings' perspectives are often expressed through their parents and not by siblings themselves. METHOD This study has a qualitative design within hermeneutic phenomenology. Thirteen siblings (ages 3-29) of children with cancer or genetic conditions participated in semi-structured interviews. Analyses followed a thematic analysis guided by van Manen's lifeexistentials. RESULTS One overall theme, "What about me?", illustrates that siblings of children with LT/LL conditions are dealing with their own challenges and needs in the situation while also struggling to receive attention from their parents. The overall theme derives from three subthemes: living with heavy strains, feeling disregarded, and having needs of one's own. CONCLUSION The study revealed that siblings' own needs compete with the needs of the ill child, resulting in the risk of siblings taking a step back rather than expressing what they might actually need themselves. These findings can inform healthcare professionals on the importance of educating and supporting parents and the surrounding community close to the sibling, for example, by helping schoolteachers understand how to meet siblings' needs.
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Affiliation(s)
- Trine Brun Kittelsen
- Faculty of Health Sciences, Department of Nursing and Health Promotion, Oslo Metropolitan University, Oslo, Norway
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- Division of Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine, Oslo University Hospital HF, Oslo, Norway
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- Faculty of Health Sciences, Department of Nursing and Health Promotion, Oslo Metropolitan University, Oslo, Norway
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- Faculty of Health Sciences, Department of Nursing and Health Promotion, Oslo Metropolitan University, Oslo, Norway
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Schumann A, Vatne TM, Fjermestad KW. What challenges do siblings of children with chronic disorders express to their parents? A thematic analysis of 73 sibling-parent dialogues. J Pediatr Nurs 2024; 76:91-98. [PMID: 38367476 DOI: 10.1016/j.pedn.2024.01.032] [Citation(s) in RCA: 0] [Impact Index Per Article: 0] [Reference Citation Analysis] [Abstract] [Key Words] [MESH Headings] [Track Full Text] [Journal Information] [Submit a Manuscript] [Subscribe] [Scholar Register] [Received: 10/26/2023] [Revised: 01/30/2024] [Accepted: 01/31/2024] [Indexed: 02/19/2024]
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PURPOSE The study explored challenges experienced by siblings of children with chronic disorders, as expressed by siblings in parent-child dialogues. DESIGN AND METHODS Seventy-three parent-child dialogues (M duration = 28.6 min) were analyzed using qualitative thematic analysis. The dialogues took place within the SIBS group intervention for siblings and parents of children with chronic disorders. The siblings (aged 8 to 14 years) had brothers and sisters with autism spectrum disorders, ADHD, rare disorders, cerebral palsy, or severe mental health disorders. The data are from session 5 in the SIBS intervention, in which the siblings are to express their wishes about family-related challenges (e.g., desired changes) to their parents. The parents are encouraged to listen, explore, and validate the child's perspective before discussing solutions. RESULTS Most of the family-oriented challenges the siblings expressed were related to the diagnosis of the brother or sister with a disorder. Four main themes were identified: (1) Family life (e.g., limitations in family activities); (2) The diagnosis (e.g., concerns about the future); (3) Violence; and (4) Important relationships. CONCLUSION The siblings experienced challenges and difficult emotions in interactional processes in which the diagnosis affected family life and relationships. The study adds a new dimension to the field by identifying siblings' expressed challenges based on parent-child dialogues. PRACTICE IMPLICATIONS Identified themes can guide how parents should meet and address siblings' needs, how health care providers inform and support parents in doing so, and emphasize the relevance of interventions targeting family-level risk and resilience factors.
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- Amalie Schumann
- Department of Psychology, University of Oslo, Norway; Department of Psychiatry, University of Oxford, United Kingdom.
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- Department of Psychology, University of Oslo, Norway; Frambu resource centre for rare disorders, Norway
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- Department of Psychology, University of Oslo, Norway; Frambu resource centre for rare disorders, Norway
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Huang HM, Yeh TC, Lee TY. Taiwanese fathers' experiences of caring for their children during childhood cancer treatment. Eur J Oncol Nurs 2024; 69:102543. [PMID: 38457933 DOI: 10.1016/j.ejon.2024.102543] [Citation(s) in RCA: 0] [Impact Index Per Article: 0] [Reference Citation Analysis] [Abstract] [Key Words] [MESH Headings] [Track Full Text] [Journal Information] [Subscribe] [Scholar Register] [Received: 12/23/2022] [Revised: 02/21/2024] [Accepted: 02/24/2024] [Indexed: 03/10/2024]
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PURPOSE Parents must manage their own stress and help their child with cancer during the treatment process, both physically and emotionally. With the increased involvement of fathers in caring for the family, how fathers adjust to the stress and play a role in care responsibilities is unknown. This study aimed to explore the fathers' experiences of caring for their ill child during the cancer diagnosis and treatment process. METHOD This study adopted a qualitative descriptive design and conducted in-depth interviews with 21 fathers with a diagnosed child recruited from a northern Taiwan medical center. Data were managed and analysed using content analysis. RESULTS Two main categories in the Taiwanese fathers' experiences of caring for their ill child during the cancer diagnosis and treatment process emerged: 1) the maintainer of family stability, and 2) thoughts and value adjustment. Each main category consists of 3-4 generic categories. They make the necessary adjustments between work and family, actively participate in caring for the entire family, and redefine family values. They convey information about the illness to their children, pay attention to the physical and psychological development of the child with cancer, and cherish the time spent together as a family. CONCLUSIONS During the cancer treatment process, fathers play the roles of the protector and maintainer of family stability and adjust their attitudes and thoughts toward the family members and family life. Healthcare professionals can offer the fathers comprehensive support and improve the family's overall well-being during this demanding period.
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- Hsiu-Mei Huang
- School of Nursing, National Taipei University of Nursing and Health Sciences, Taiwan
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- Division of Pediatric Hematology-Oncology, Department of Pediatrics, Mackay Children's Hospital and Mackay Medical College, Taipei, Taiwan
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- School of Nursing, National Taipei University of Nursing and Health Sciences, Taiwan.
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Ng NKY, Dudeney J, Jaaniste T. Parent-Child Communication Incongruence in Pediatric Healthcare. CHILDREN (BASEL, SWITZERLAND) 2023; 11:39. [PMID: 38255353 PMCID: PMC10814587 DOI: 10.3390/children11010039] [Citation(s) in RCA: 0] [Impact Index Per Article: 0] [Reference Citation Analysis] [Abstract] [Key Words] [Track Full Text] [Subscribe] [Scholar Register] [Received: 11/09/2023] [Revised: 12/12/2023] [Accepted: 12/26/2023] [Indexed: 01/24/2024]
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Parents play a key role in providing children with health-related information and emotional support. This communication occurs both in their homes and in pediatric healthcare environments, such as hospitals, outpatient clinics, and primary care offices. Often, this occurs within situations entailing heightened stress for both the parent and the child. There is considerable research within the communication literature regarding the nature of both verbal and nonverbal communication, along with the way in which these communication modalities are either similar (i.e., congruent) or dissimilar (i.e., incongruent) to one another. However, less is known about communication congruency/incongruency, specifically in parent-child relationships, or within healthcare environments. In this narrative review, we explore the concept of verbal and nonverbal communication incongruence, specifically within the context of parent-child communication in a pediatric healthcare setting. We present an overview of verbal and nonverbal communication and propose the Communication Incongruence Model to encapsulate how verbal and nonverbal communication streams are used and synthesized by parents and children. We discuss the nature and possible reasons for parental communication incongruence within pediatric settings, along with the consequences of incongruent communication. Finally, we suggest a number of hypotheses derived from the model that can be tested empirically and used to guide future research directions and influence potential clinical applications.
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- Nancy Kwun Yiu Ng
- Departments of Pain & Palliative Care, Sydney Children’s Hospital, Randwick, NSW 2031, Australia; (N.K.Y.N.); (J.D.)
- School of Clinical Medicine, University of New South Wales, Kensington, NSW 2033, Australia
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- Departments of Pain & Palliative Care, Sydney Children’s Hospital, Randwick, NSW 2031, Australia; (N.K.Y.N.); (J.D.)
- School of Clinical Medicine, University of New South Wales, Kensington, NSW 2033, Australia
- School of Psychological Sciences, Macquarie University, Macquarie Park, NSW 2109, Australia
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- Departments of Pain & Palliative Care, Sydney Children’s Hospital, Randwick, NSW 2031, Australia; (N.K.Y.N.); (J.D.)
- School of Clinical Medicine, University of New South Wales, Kensington, NSW 2033, Australia
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Dinkelbach L, Köhler M, Galushko M, Pieper L, Kuhlen M, Danneberg M, Dechert O, Trocan L, Janßen G. Psychosocial Well-Being of Siblings of Pediatric Patients in Palliative Home Care. J Pain Symptom Manage 2023; 66:630-637.e1. [PMID: 37643651 DOI: 10.1016/j.jpainsymman.2023.08.022] [Citation(s) in RCA: 2] [Impact Index Per Article: 2.0] [Reference Citation Analysis] [Abstract] [Key Words] [MESH Headings] [Track Full Text] [Journal Information] [Submit a Manuscript] [Subscribe] [Scholar Register] [Received: 05/19/2023] [Revised: 08/17/2023] [Accepted: 08/20/2023] [Indexed: 08/31/2023]
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CONTEXT Despite the proposed high burden of siblings of children and adolescents with life-limiting conditions receiving pediatric palliative care (PPC) at home, little is known about their psychosocial well-being. METHODS In this prospective, cross-sectional trial siblings of patients of a large pediatric palliative home care team were asked to answer the KINDL survey of health-related quality of life, the strengths and difficulties questionnaire (SDQ) to assess problems and resources of children and adolescents as well as the LARES questionnaire, a potential tool for early screening of distress in siblings of chronically ill children. The results of the KINDL total and subdomains as well of the SDQ-subdomains were compared to recent German normative data using multiple t-tests. RESULTS In total, 44 siblings (28 female; age 7-18 years, mean 11.8 ± 3.03) of 29 families participated in this study. The subgroup which matches the age range of current normative data of 11-17 years old siblings (n = 25) reported a significant lower total quality of life as measured by KINDL in comparison to normative data. Subscale analyses revealed a significant lower physical and psychological well-being and self-esteem. Siblings of PPC patients yielded significant higher scores in the subdomain prosocial behavior compared to normative data as measured by the SDQ. CONCLUSIONS Siblings of children receiving PPC in a home care setting are at risk for a relevant impairment of their health-related quality of life. Future studies should address the potential for possible interventions specific for this population-at-risk.
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- Lars Dinkelbach
- Department of Pediatric Oncology (L.D., M.K., M.G., L.P., M.K., O.D., L.T., G.J.), Hematology and Clinical Immunology, Centre for Child and Adolescent Health, Medical Faculty, Heinrich-Heine-University, Duesseldorf, Germany; Department of Pediatrics III (L.D.), University Children's Hospital Essen, University of Duisburg-Essen, Essen, Germany.
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- Department of Pediatric Oncology (L.D., M.K., M.G., L.P., M.K., O.D., L.T., G.J.), Hematology and Clinical Immunology, Centre for Child and Adolescent Health, Medical Faculty, Heinrich-Heine-University, Duesseldorf, Germany
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- Department of Pediatric Oncology (L.D., M.K., M.G., L.P., M.K., O.D., L.T., G.J.), Hematology and Clinical Immunology, Centre for Child and Adolescent Health, Medical Faculty, Heinrich-Heine-University, Duesseldorf, Germany
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- Department of Pediatric Oncology (L.D., M.K., M.G., L.P., M.K., O.D., L.T., G.J.), Hematology and Clinical Immunology, Centre for Child and Adolescent Health, Medical Faculty, Heinrich-Heine-University, Duesseldorf, Germany
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- Department of Pediatric Oncology (L.D., M.K., M.G., L.P., M.K., O.D., L.T., G.J.), Hematology and Clinical Immunology, Centre for Child and Adolescent Health, Medical Faculty, Heinrich-Heine-University, Duesseldorf, Germany; Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine (M.K.), Medical Faculty, University of Augsburg, Augsburg, Germany
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- Department of Pediatric Oncology (L.D., M.K., M.G., L.P., M.K., O.D., L.T., G.J.), Hematology and Clinical Immunology, Centre for Child and Adolescent Health, Medical Faculty, Heinrich-Heine-University, Duesseldorf, Germany
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- Department of Pediatric Oncology (L.D., M.K., M.G., L.P., M.K., O.D., L.T., G.J.), Hematology and Clinical Immunology, Centre for Child and Adolescent Health, Medical Faculty, Heinrich-Heine-University, Duesseldorf, Germany
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- Department of Pediatric Oncology (L.D., M.K., M.G., L.P., M.K., O.D., L.T., G.J.), Hematology and Clinical Immunology, Centre for Child and Adolescent Health, Medical Faculty, Heinrich-Heine-University, Duesseldorf, Germany
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- Department of Pediatric Oncology (L.D., M.K., M.G., L.P., M.K., O.D., L.T., G.J.), Hematology and Clinical Immunology, Centre for Child and Adolescent Health, Medical Faculty, Heinrich-Heine-University, Duesseldorf, Germany
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Jaaniste T, Chin WLA, Tan SC, Cuganesan A, Coombs S, Heaton M, Cowan S, Potter D, Aouad P, Smith PL, Trethewie S. Parent and Well-Sibling Communication in Families With a Child Who Has a Life-Limiting Condition: Quantitative Survey Data. J Pediatr Psychol 2022; 47:606-616. [PMID: 35552431 DOI: 10.1093/jpepsy/jsab128] [Citation(s) in RCA: 5] [Impact Index Per Article: 2.5] [Reference Citation Analysis] [Abstract] [Key Words] [MESH Headings] [Track Full Text] [Journal Information] [Subscribe] [Scholar Register] [Received: 06/27/2021] [Revised: 11/18/2021] [Accepted: 11/18/2021] [Indexed: 11/12/2022] Open
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OBJECTIVE Living with a child with a life-limiting condition (LLC), for which there is no hope of cure and premature death is expected, places much stress on a family unit. Familial communication has the potential to serve as a buffer when children are faced with stressful situations. The overall aim of the study was to learn more about illness-related communication between parents and well-siblings, giving particular consideration to the amount of illness-related communication, and sibling satisfaction with familial communication. METHODS Participants included 48 well-siblings (aged 6-21 years) of children with LLCs and their parents. Parents and well-siblings independently completed validated measures of familial communication and sibling functioning. Parents also provided demographic information and completed a questionnaire assessing amount of illness-related information provided to well-siblings. RESULTS Parents reported that 47.8% of well-siblings never or rarely initiated conversations about their sibling's illness. Moreover, 52.2% of well-siblings never or rarely spoke about death. Amount of illness-related communication between parents and well-siblings was most strongly predicted by parental resilience and well-sibling age. Parents engaged in significantly more illness-related communication with girls than boys (t(44)=-2.28, p = .028). Well-siblings (p < .01) and parents (p < .05) rated satisfaction with familial communication significantly higher than published norms. The only significant predictor of well-sibling satisfaction with familial communication was greater familial cohesion. Family communication variables were not significantly correlated with measures of sibling functioning (all p's>.05). CONCLUSIONS This study provides new information regarding parent and well-sibling communication in families who have a child with a LLC.
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- Tiina Jaaniste
- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Australia
- School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Australia
- School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Australia
- School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Australia
- School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Australia
- Bear Cottage, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Children's Hospital at Westmead, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Australia
- School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Australia
- School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Australia
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Jaaniste T, Cuganesan A, Chin WLA, Tan SC, Coombs S, Heaton M, Cowan S, Aouad P, Potter D, Smith PL, Trethewie S. Living with a child who has a life-limiting condition: The functioning of well-siblings and parents. Child Care Health Dev 2022; 48:269-276. [PMID: 34766366 DOI: 10.1111/cch.12927] [Citation(s) in RCA: 5] [Impact Index Per Article: 2.5] [Reference Citation Analysis] [Abstract] [Key Words] [Track Full Text] [Journal Information] [Submit a Manuscript] [Subscribe] [Scholar Register] [Received: 05/20/2021] [Revised: 09/22/2021] [Accepted: 10/30/2021] [Indexed: 11/27/2022]
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BACKGROUND Living with a child who has a life-limiting condition (LLC) is likely to have a major impact on all family members. There is a need to have a clearer understanding of the nature and extent of this impact on parents and well-siblings. The current study aimed to investigate the psychosocial functioning of well-siblings and parents living with a child with an LLC. Further, the study aimed to assess the resilience resources of both well-siblings and parents, giving consideration to how these relate to psychosocial functioning. METHODS Participants included 48 well-siblings (6-21 years) and 42 parents of children with LLCs. Parents and well-siblings independently completed validated measures of child and adult functioning and personal resilience. Parents provided demographic information about the patient and family. RESULTS The emotional, social and school functioning of well-siblings in the current study was found to be significantly poorer than published norms (all p's < .01). Parental self-reported depression, anxiety and stress scores were also all significantly poorer than published norms (all p's < .01). There was negligible agreement between well-sibling self-reported functioning and parental proxy-report of the well-siblings functioning (all r's < .126, all p's > .464). Sibling self-reported resilience was positively correlated with each of the measures of psychosocial functioning (all r's > .318, p's < .05). Parental resilience was significantly negatively correlated with depressive symptoms (r = -.369, p < .05) and anxiety symptoms (r = -.473, p < .01) but not stress scores (r = -.074, p = .644). CONCLUSION Family members living with a child who has an LLC were found to have significantly poorer psychosocial functioning than published norms. Although one cannot infer a causal direction from the current study, greater self-reported well-sibling and parental resilience were associated with aspects of better self-reported psychosocial functioning. Future studies should assess the impact of psychosocial interventions aimed at enhancing the resilience and functioning of both well-siblings and parents.
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Affiliation(s)
- Tiina Jaaniste
- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Randwick, New South Wales, Australia.,School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Kensington, New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Randwick, New South Wales, Australia.,School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Kensington, New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Randwick, New South Wales, Australia.,School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Kensington, New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Randwick, New South Wales, Australia.,School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Kensington, New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Randwick, New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Randwick, New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Randwick, New South Wales, Australia.,Bear Cottage, Manly, NSW, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Randwick, New South Wales, Australia.,School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Kensington, New South Wales, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Children's Hospital at Westmead, Sydney, NSW, Australia
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- Department of Palliative Care, Sydney Children's Hospital, Randwick, New South Wales, Australia.,School of Women's and Children's Health, University of New South Wales, Kensington, New South Wales, Australia
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